With Valentine's Day just passing, I thought I would so graciously dedicate my first blog to the ever so golden topic of relationships. But to make things interesting, I'm going to address the contraversial topic of "almost cheating". What I mean is, when one partner strays from the other in a dishonest direction towards another man or woman, and almost cheats on you with said man or woman, but stops before anything happens. Is this cheating? Some consider it not, some consider it so.
I personally view this as cheating. True, no breasts were squeezed, no package was stroked, and no lips touched. But what was going on in your significant other's mind? The lust. The possible emotional attachment to another man or woman. This pisses me off endlessly. Yes, the fact that they stopped before any physical doings were done, but this only tells me that they have enough sense to say, oh wait this is wrong, im cheating. But then again, that should be a given, with you being in a relationship with them in the first damn place. Furthermore, this just shows that the straying partner is no longer phased by your rippling muscles, or sexy hourglass figure. This just proves that some people are just pigs rectums.
"No, nothing happened dear."
However intentions were obvious.
Now there are some of you poor souls that don't think this is cheating. "He/She didn't cheat on me because they stopped themselves from pissing on our relationship." Look, if that's what makes you feel better when you look in the mirror, then fine. But personally, I just take it as a sign that I am no longer "good enough" for my significant other, they want something different, and they will likely do it again in the future, this time not stopping.
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